Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Simple Pleasures

I am a chronic list maker. I make lists for everything. Sometimes I even write what I already did, just so I can check it off. When my kids were babies, I would often have 2-3 days in a row where I didn’t get out of my jammies. On these days, just so I would feel productive, my list would say things like, “take a shower” or, “do the dishes”.


I’ve recently discovered the “notes” application on my phone. For a list maker, it is the greatest thing invented since the magnetic fridge whiteboard. Currently I have 10 lists going in my “notes” section. Some are shopping lists, while others are things like “Birthday Gift Ideas for Kids”. It is so handy because now all my lists are in one place.

On a quest to pull my silent thought life out of a yucky pit, I decided to start a list of the little things I’m thankful for. I titled the list, “Simple Pleasures”. I started the list about a week ago, and I’ve been adding to it a little everyday. Whether I’m in line at the border or cutting veggies for dinner, my thoughts have been drifting to the simple pleasures in my life:

Waking up to the smell of coffee

Walking out in the early morning and finding one or more of the kids
snuggled on the couch reading

Hearing my husband say to me, "So what do you think about...?"

God's Word open on the kitchen table next to my coffee

Walks on the beach

Writing on pretty stationary

Empty laundry baskets

Listening to my children pray in faith

Solitude and a good book

Making lists and checking things off

Fresh cut sweet peas in a posy vase on my nightstand

Long love letters or short kinky text messages from my husband

Panera French baguette with butter

Displaying my kids art as if it were a Yadro or a Michael Angelo

Rainy days

Listening to my family quote lines from Nacho Libre while I try not to
wet my pants

Seeing old wrinkly skin next to newborn skin

Hearing the sound of Legos clinking together down the hall

Praying with other women

Being pursued by my husband of 16 years as if we've just met

Watching my kids play in the waves together

A clean house (doesn't happen often, but I love it when it does)

Sitting down to an amazing salad made by someone other than myself

Laughing with my family so hard we cry

Hot baths

Getting a letter in the mail, or better yet, watching my kids when
they get a letter in the mail

Hearing the words, "thanks for dinner, Mom, it was great!"

Lunch with girlfriends

Clean sheets

Pedicures

Making eye contact with my husband from across the room and knowing he
knows what I'm thinking

Sunsets over the ocean

When my boys who are 10 and 12 reach over to hold my hand in a public place

James Taylor on the radio

Chocolate chip cookies

When my husband reaches his foot over to touch mine just before he falls asleep

Waking up to the rooster's crow

PB&J on the beach

Goodnight kisses from my kids